Single Life “Describe your day so far in three emojis. Go!” Updated: May 21, 2021 Originally Published: Oct. 3, 2018 Starting a conversation with someone who you've just started dating can be stressful AF. Before you know what makes someone tick, figuring out how to to get a conversation going can definitely take a bit of practice. However, starting conversations is a crucial part of keeping in touch between dates, and if you let that convo fizzle out, then you might just miss your chance. If you’re at a loss for how to text someone you haven’t talked to in a long time, then I’ve got a few conversation-starting texts to send that will get the ball rolling again. Finding a good texting rhythm is one of the best ways to stay connected, especially if your busy schedule keeps you from going on dates as often as you would like. However, if a few days have passed and you haven’t heard from a date, there’s a way to revive that convo without it being totally awkward. Pro tip: If you're not sure how to text someone you haven’t talked to in a long time, try to avoid just saying, "Hey.” Whether you reference something you talked about on your last date or suggest it’s time you go on another date, here are some lines to use when you convo goes stale.
See? Not too hard! If you're still feeling weird about what to say, just think about how you would text a new friend. In the end, you just want to make it clear that you're interested while still keeping them on their toes. Editor's Note: This story has been updated by Elite Daily Staff. This article was originally published on 10.03.18 Do you remember the days when you used to talk and laugh for hours sitting with your best friends in an empty classroom? There were almost endless things to talk about, and time flew by as you chatted together. But, when was the last time you had a long talk with that old friend of yours? If it’s been quite a while, read on! Everyone’s busy. Due to hectic schedules, life changes, big moves, and more, people often lose touch with their pals. We know talking to an old friend after a long time feels overwhelming, and a lot of people want to reconnect but it isn’t happening. The reality is that people find it a bit awkward to get back in touch with their friend if they haven’t spoken for a while. Although you have a temptation to talk to your friend, you might worry about how to start a conversation. To help you out, here are some conversation starters to help you reconnect. Start with something simple
Expand the topic Bring back good old memories Dig Deeper End conversation with a plan When you end the conversation, make sure you have made a plan for the next meet-up. You can consider following phrases to wind up the call or chat.
We hope these tips were helpful! Now it's your turn to start a conversation with a friend you haven't spoken to in a while. If you’re looking for a way to stay close with old friends online, try the Longwalks app. It has daily prompts that help you discuss meaningful topics and stay up to date. What do you say when you haven't talked to someone in a while?13 Texts to Send Someone You Haven't Seen in a While. 1 “Hey! ... . 2 “How are you? ... . 3 “It's been too long! ... . 4 “I passed by our old school and wondered how you were doing.”. 5 “I was thinking about how we stopped talking, and I realized I was in the wrong.”. 6 “Wishing you a happy holiday! ... . 7 “Miss your face!”. What do you say after not talking for a long time?"I know it's been a while, but I just wanted to see how you're doing." MixMedia/E+/Getty Images. ... . "Hey! ... . "I just saw Twisted Lime Doritos at the store and it made me think of you!" ... . "Wow, I just had a flashback. ... . "Hey! ... . “Wow, I can't believe I never answered this!” ... . “My horoscope said I should text you today.”. How do you talk to someone you haven't talked to in years?Just keep a few things in mind:. Shift your perspective. The last thing any of us want is to be seen as the person who reaches out to someone only when we need something from them. ... . Acknowledge the absence of contact. ... . Pay attention to tone. ... . Give them an out. ... . Offer to reciprocate. ... . Show appreciation. ... . Stay in contact.. How do you talk to a friend you havent talked to in a long time?How to Call Someone You Haven't Talked to in a Long Time. 1 Text first to re-establish contact.. 2 Reference a social media post of theirs.. 3 Use a special occasion as an excuse.. 4 Explain your silence.. 5 Acknowledge that it's been a while.. 6 Apologize if you feel it's necessary.. |